On the death of your loved ones

“There’s a club, the dead dads club. And you can’t be in it, ’till you’re in it.” Grey’s Anatomy’s quotes are almost always on point, but out of the hundreds quotes the show shared during its 10 years of airtime, this one stays with me the most. When my father died, I thought I would

5 Things That I Learned a Little Too Late

A friend of mine sent a cute gift in the form of Conversation Starter cards for couples. There are 100 cards with different open-ended questions, supposedly to start deep conversations. Honestly, I think you can use it with a group of friends too, although the questions might be a little too private. One of the

So This is Christmas

As I wrote Christmas cards for our friends and families this year, I kept repeating “this year has been a crazy one” and alternated it with “this has been an unusual year”. After a while, I paused and was a little annoyed with myself. But no matter how hard I tried, “this has been an

The Day We Got Married in the Middle of Pandemic

Three months ago, I married my best friend. You probably have read his name written here and there, in the span of my 10 years of blogging hahahah. I refer to him as K, or Wiramihardja most of the time. Looking back, there’s no way I could’ve seen this coming. Part of it is because

the year of 2019

It’s pretty much 3 months late (haha) but hey, who says reflection only takes place at the end of the year (or beginning of one?). 2020 is a new decade and to think that I’ve survived the 2nd decade of my life, this time with better memory and appreciation of what has happened, I’d say